After a couple of years of marriage singer Judith Sephuma divorced her husband photographer Sphiwe Mhlambi in 2016. Judith says although the divorce was hard she learned some lessons from that.
“The biggest lesson I’ve taken from this is that when you enter into a relationship, you must be fulfilled and whole before somebody comes into your life,” Judith told True Love Magazine.
“Let them (a partner) find you intact because nothing is going to make you happier. Happiness is within you. Being divorced or married doesn’t make us experts in marriage- whether you’ve been married for 20 years, less or more, there’s no recipe for what you must do. That’s why they say marry your best friend,” Judith adds.
Judith says she and her ex have no bad blood and co-parent well.