“So say you find one who has ALL the qualities you have ever wanted in a partner. They treat incredibly well, make you happy, etc…And the “perfect” partner happens to have another partner. And s/he is honest about this to you. What do you do?,” Boity posed a question on twitter.
Boity feels that if the one you love finds qualities that they love in another being other than you, it does not make you the wrong partner. “If love is our natural state of being, isn’t the idea of loving just one person completely unnatural if not impossible?,” she asked.
As for her, Boity says she not against having the conversation of having more than one lover with her future partner. “I still have a lot to unlearn before giving an honest answer to this. Real talk. For now…I‘m willing to discuss it with a future partner.”
