"Psychologically, this will automatically set a benchmark for your child. So even if he or she was going to abstain until her adult years, the likelihood that he/she will lose her virginity around the age you lost yours will drastically increase.

 So if you lost your virginity after marriage you could probably share, but if you lost your virginity early in your teenage years when you were still considered as irresponsible, you should probably hold onto that piece of information,"