It is quite alarming that there are a lot of kids out there that are being raised by men who think they are their biological fathers but are in fact not. In an age of birth control, abortion and the fact that only a small percentage of acts of unprotected intercourse result in pregnancy, imagine how big the percentage of women probably is.
You can’t trust any statistics, cause only a few will admit this fact when they are asked by a stranger.
Women cheat for several reasons; some are not contented ad for others it might be the because they are just curious, perhaps they crave a bit of adventure.
Whatever reason it may be, the question is : How do you know if your girlfriend/fiancee/spouse is cheating on you?
Lets explore the most common signs that can help you tell whether your woman is cheating on you or not.
1. She Stops Showing affectionMost women are fashioned in a way that they fuss about the most minute details. Whether it is you forgetting her birthday or perhaps your anniversary, or probably when you stop calling her as you used to….
But when she stops caring and rarely makes a fuss about the things she used to get angry over, then you have a cause to worry
2. Interest in intimacy lost
The basis/ foundation of a relationship is intimacy and couples build intimacy by intercourse. If she begins to show less interest in intimacy then chances are that she’s getting it from someone else.
3. She avoids commitment
Most women want a man who is willing to commit to them for life. They will drop hints if not directly ask their boyfriend what his plans for their future are. So if your woman is being dodgy whenever you bring up the topic of the future of your relationship, it may be a sign that she’s cheating on you and has other options to explore.
4. She is always busy
Perhaps you text her in the morning and she gets to reply at night. Or maybe you have plans to take her out in the evening and she begs you to reschedule to another time (perhaps a time of her choosing). You try to confront her as to why she doesn’t give you time as she used to and then she says ‘baby am sorry. I am just always busy’ Nah nah nah! That is all sorts of wrong! The level of our ‘being busy’ is directly proportional to the person involved. Its simple: If she values you, she will make time for you. If she does anything short of that then you should be concerned.
5. Secret schedules
Are there several hours in which she seems unable to account for? Is she sometimes mum on her whereabouts? The moment your woman becomes secretive in her schedules, it clearly shows that there is something she is hiding. If you find yourself knowing less about her movements, there is reason to worry.
6. Change In Appearance
When you were dating, your woman went to great lengths to look amazing for you and consistently made your heart stop. But after dating for a while or after marriage it seems that she doesn’t care so much like before, which is normal. Has your woman started again dressing a little more special out of the blue? Does she suddenly seem to pay extra attention to her appearance while leaving to meet up her girls, more than when going out with you? She may be out to impress and catch the attentions of another man.
7. Her phone
This is one of the most obvious clues! Does she keep a password on her phone which she hasn’t shared with you? Does she walk out of your presence while receiving calls from time to time? Perhaps she’s mostly with her phone probably smiling and giggling while she texts and when you ask her about it she doesn’t give you satisfactory answer. If she hardly drops her phone and she often asks for privacy when making calls then you should be worried.
8. Avoiding questions
Some say most women don’t know how to lie but in contrary i have met girls that’ll make the devil look like an angel. Whenever she is doing something behind your back she’ll feel uncomfortable when you ask her simple questions. If she hesitates to answer, or she avoids your questions entirely then you need to watch out.
9. Defensive approach
This is the oldest trick in the book. You might simply ask her ‘Where have you been?’ And then she’ll reply with an outburst of rage. Once your woman begins to escalate simple conversations to an aggressive level then she probably has a motive.
10. Always complaining
When she starts to nag often then you should take that as i sign. In my own personal experience i realised that girls tend to do this as a kind of defence strategy. So that way when the die is finllay cast it’ll look like the relationship ended because it simply wasnt working out (not the fact that she was cheating). Everybody nags quite alright. But when your woman starts doing it on a daily basis you should know that either you are really messing up(lol) or she’s got another boo somewhere. (Its more often the latter)