1. Making assumptions
Men cannot read minds. If there is something you like, let him know. Do not stay still and quiet through the process, only to bash him later, saying he does not know what he is doing in bed.
2. Never initiating
This is very common with a lot of women. You get so shy that you cannot ask your man for sex when you want it. Men love it when you initiate. It makes them feel desired, especially from a woman he loves. So, make the move tonight.
3. Being inactive
You are a sexual being, show it by being an active participant in the sex act. It takes two to screw. Never let the man do all the work while you just lay there. Unsexy.
4. Faking orgasm
If you are not getting there, speak up. The earlier you let him know, the better for your sex life. Faking it helps no one. If he knows you are not cumming, you both can figure out new and fun ways to make this happen. You shouldn't have to pretend the rest of your life.
5. Being selfish
There are some women out there who will rather receive than give. They get a selfless lover and they have a problem giving back. This is unfair. If he is giving you all that good feelings, be sure to return the favour.
6. Keeping him in the dark
This is something else that is common among women. You keep insisting on sex in the dark, perhaps to help with shyness or you are just uncomfortable about your body. But remember, men are visual beings. Seeing your body will improve pleasure for them. Besides, he knew what your body looks like before choosing to have sex with you, so get over your hang-ups.